I guess this is one topic that most people in this world have issues with. If i say that this is the ONLY reason why problems happen in this world between people then maybe I would be a little bit correct, don’t you think so? What?? You said no? Oh ok let’s talk about it then maybe I might learn something in the procedure.

What is a rude person?

This is one question which will get different answers from different people. Because first of all, everyone who is impossible themselves would definitely not see those “qualities” in them right. But what are those things that make someone be rude or unbearable?

Rude people are everywhere. They are in your house, at your workplace, at your school, your college all over you. But what is an rude person look like? And how does he react on various occasions?

Let’s talk facts!! No made up stuff just FACTS that you have seen and experienced and things that I have seen in the over tens of thousands of people I came across in the past few years.

1. A rude person doesn’t value time

Oh yes, that’s a first one of my list. Why? Well there have been times when the precious time that you have probably given to someone who needed those comforting words.. you remember? Well and that person forgot them at a time when you really thought they wouldn’t? Yes I know I know.. been there done that.. to deal with people like that all you need to do is… totally ignore them on any occasion, if not straight away then slowly slowly back off .. because there will come a time when you will be sorry you knew them.

2. A rude person doesn’t value love

This is so true. Because if a rude person valued the most lovely thing in the world, Love. The thing the feeling that drives the world around, they wouldn’t dare to be rude. But then again if they don’t value love then they definitly won’t value the feelings around it. The relations that surround them, because all they will see is some “scam” that everyone is making it up, everyone is faking that they are lovey dovey and in the same process they will try to rub their nonsense on you.

Once again back off from them.. because there is nothing worse than being with people who make love look bad..

3. A rude person is not genuine

When I say genuine I am talking about “honest” with you or themselves. Because rudeness kills all those things in you that make you a proper human being. Because a rude person would always look for the worst in everyone, and the goodness they SEE they will blind them self and act as if they didn’t see it. So yes, if you feel you are being put down for things others appreciate you for, that person is RUDE in that sense. And if they feel they are genuine for putting you down, then tell them to take a chill pill because you ARE special and you know it. If you let yourself down, you lose!

4. A rude person can NOT be your friend

How can they? Because as I mentioned before rudeness kills your inside, because if you can NOT respect other people for humanity in them, or anything nice they have in them, then rudeness takes over. Oh my oh my have I seen rude people in my life time… People who I have given the most precious of my time at a time when they were down like anything, and BOOM when I would warn them for being rude on our site networks they would come up with some nice and colorful thoughts about the way I was with them. Well to tell you the truth, let’s be honest, do we even have to CARE to bother or think about rude people not being our friends?

I have come across a few people who sit and cry over why someone is not their friend anymore and they were so close to them, and they also AGREE that they were rude on and off. Well my friends if you have someone like that in your life that isn’t your friend anymore.. Thank GOD, go pray, go light a candle, go on a vacation because your prayers are heard buddy. Because rude people have no respect for themselves, hence they don’t respect friendship or any emotion attached to it, because their EGO will inflate and blind their eyes before they do so.

5. A rude person once a rude person all the time

Since I run CrazeFM and have been doing since its beginning days with a friend. I managed to come across some of the rudest people whom I would consider out my life the same day they opened their mouth when warned about being “rude”. You would give them a chance to come back to the site or in your life, oh yes they will come and that too with a fake face. And BANG when the day comes when you FEEL that you giving them a chance is going to pay off because they will value it that you letting them back in your life or SITE for that matter was not your weakness but your strength, they will definitely show you their true face. Full of so much hate, ego and the thing called revenge burning through their words.

So buddies take it from someone who knows what he’s saying in this department after dealing with people who know nothing else than spreading hate amongst religions, amongst friends, have low self esteem issues and take it out on others and those who have been their for them. A rude person is who has said something to you once, will never be sorry. Because either you are rude or you aren’t. That’s the way I see it. 100% of the times I have given a chance to a rude person back on our sites, it’s always proven to be that they are like the saying “kutte ki dum tedhi hi rehti hei” so yes those kutte ki dums ko you can keep out of your life and out of sight.

How to deal with rude people?

Ok here is a summary of how you can deal with them online and offline.

1. Block and delete them from MSN
2. Block their emails and send them to trash
3. Remove their contact info, and then change yours
4. Do NOT reply to their silly mails or phone calls
5. Remember, YOU ARE NOT to be giving them explanations of why you did this or that, they are not worth you explanations. They are people from a totally different unrealistic world, a world which thinks rudeness rocks!

So friends, rudeness is a disease, and those that have it unless they want to work on themselves and you see a BIG change do not waste you time on them. Because I have seen a few people who get emotionally blackmailed by those type of people I wish there was some kind of time they should serve in prison for “killing” other people’s dreams, their ideas, thoughts, values by their rude and crude remarks.

So this one is for those that see respect as the one thing that is the bridge between two worlds. And the above is also my virtual slap for every single person who came onto CrazeFM, misused the trust we bestowed in them, and in return of hundreds of friends they found on the site all they could give me was attitude as if they doing me a favor for poisoning the minds of others just because in their view it is funny to be rude when I stop them from being sarcastic to other members when they win something, and because in their view it’s rude of me to tell them NOT to curse in the shoutbox.

The above is the sum of the few years I spent managing one of the largest Asian Networks, and to tell you the truth… our Asian guys especially topped the list of being either the sweetest or the rudest. And when they turn rude, oh man oh man.. they forget all their culture and values.

So I would just like to request one thing, when talking to people who have authority, do not feel low or jealous just be yourself. Because jealousy will fuel your rudeness and will stop you on your feet.. The few people I have seen as rude people, are still on the same tracks they were at…

So summary of the above after my experience?

Rudeness goes hand in hand with failures and people who will drag you down.. so stay away from them at any cost