Why are we so nice to people we don’t know but not to those that we are close to?
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Tue, Jul 15, 2008
Why are we so nice to people we don’t know but not to those that we are close to?
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July 17th, 2008 at 8:27 am
True often we take our loved ones for granted & I guess we hope that they understand us since they know us well & hope we can get away with it.
Actually it is not very difficult to be nice.Little things make a big difference in everyone’s lives , so next time you see ur mom looking tired, help her get a pedicure n give her a hot cup of tea, she will definitely love it.When your man comes back home tired just get his favourite dishes on the table, give him a relaxed evening & tell me if it wont be appreciated.I have always noticed that little things always go a long way in making people feel good.Grand gestures on occasions are good but daily a smile, a how are you when someone feels all sick, these are what makes life pleasant.So it takes little things for one to be nice to your loved ones.
A hug, a kiss, a little effort doesn’t cost much but you get so much out of it
July 18th, 2008 at 2:34 pm
I think in this going days young people are caring more them friends or collegues than family….but dont note this fact & i think them parents note it….for this new generation its a normal fact…
I did the experince with my little brother….but now he changed him attitude coz i gave him some lecture…as Saanj sis & Wakas bahi said in life there is little little things which making people around us Happy & when we can see smile on them face coz U did something for them…just a “thanks” or “sorry” can be a lot for some people but some others dont care on it…
People always expect but dont give a lot so i think if U wanna be happy & see people around U happy give them at first then expect from them”…As wakas bahi says at the end on him msg send SMS 5 people around U & will see the result…ys of course U will say “hello” at first then U will have answer….
By the way life is so short i think we must have to care our family & specially our parents they do a lot for us before we have our own bank balance so the minimum we can do is respect our parents & try to care them as they do for us…
There is a quote that i really like “always put others before yourself “
July 20th, 2008 at 12:50 am
I totalli agree with wat everybody has mentioned here. we tend to forget the simple small gestures in our lives which can make a big difference in somebodys life. In todays world may be all of us have gotten so busy with our own lives that lookin arnd and givin a smile is like doing a big favor on somebody.
I myself see at times people not havin time even to say hello to somebody with whom they are close to .But the same person is ready to do a lot when in need. So in the world of give and take, I feel all these gestures seem to fade away.
There is not a lot you have to do being nice. It means being urself. Appreciating little things wat ur family does, ur frnds do for you. Its understanding n respectin them for the same. Being dere for them not juzt in happiness but in their ruff times as well.
Everybody is busy these days. But these small things can make a remarkable difference in the persons life whom you care about. Being nice doesnt mean givin importance onli when needed. It means no matter wat, standin by their side and being there for them with ur kind,, sincere n truthful gestures. Thank you and God Bless
December 11th, 2009 at 12:36 am
I think in this going days young people are caring more them friends or collegues than family….but dont note this fact & i think them parents note it….for this new generation its a normal fact…
I did the experince with my little brother….but now he changed him attitude coz i gave him some lecture…as Saanj sis & Wakas bahi said in life there is little little things which making people around us Happy & when we can see smile on them face coz U did something for them…just a “thanks” or “sorry” can be a lot for some people but some others dont care on it…
People always expect but dont give a lot so i think if U wanna be happy & see people around U happy give them at first then expect from them”…As wakas bahi says at the end on him msg send SMS 5 people around U & will see the result…ys of course U will say “hello” at first then U will have answer….
By the way life is so short i think we must have to care our family & specially our parents they do a lot for us before we have our own bank balance so the minimum we can do is respect our parents & try to care them as they do for us…
There is a quote that i really like “always put others before yourself “