yes sis Allah bachaye aise lalchi logon se na.. God bless

waise aaj kal ajeeb-ajeeb tareeqe hogai hai daheez mangne ke..na jaane kahaan kahaan se dhoond ke aise aise tareeqe aijaad karte hai jisse lage bhi na ke ye mang rahe hai..bas bete ki bhalaai uska future uska career uska business na jaane kya kya naye tareeqe maangne ke..ghar car elecrical goods parhaai ka kharcha cash..aaj ke zamane main jaise beti hona ik gunaah hai…Allaah bachaai aise lalchi logon se.

Allaah ka lakh-lakh shukar hai humaare ghar main ye rivaaj nahi hai daheez mangne ka..dono bhaiyon ko bina len den ke shaadi ki hai, aur larkon ko shuru se yehi sikhaya gaya hai ke humne parha likha kar laaik kiya hai apni mehnat se apna ghar sanbhalo..mashAllaah they both r happy n priud to be called a self made man.

lekin afsos ki baat ye hue ke betiyon ko dher saara dahez dekar vida karna para…kyon ke har kissi ki soch mere daddy jaisi to nahi hogi na…dua hai sab log is tarha soche aur ladkon se guzaarish hai ke apni ana aur apne aapko na beche…itne kaabil bane ke kissi ke aage haath phailana pade.

shukriya bhai ye aham mudde uthaane ke liye…Allaah aapko dher saari khushiyan de.

bilkul sahi kaha.. i think those that give jahez to the daughters with their own will well dunno if that’s jahez .. I am focusing on “asking” and sadly bohat log iss cheez ko misuse karte na.. thx for sharing

@ bholibhali

hena.. asking for jahez is like.. saying “humare bache ko ye ye dein tab bacha denge.” bacha nahi Anda dena hei jaise

@ nadia

sahi kaha sis.. yehi to baat na the cook, cleaner and nanny leni aur ulta paise mangte.. but yah to the serious note it’s nice as you explained ke mehar ussi waqt dena chahiye .. like it should be

@ saanj

cows with tags hehe and yes so true more girls should come out n voice their ghusa on this

@ butterfly

yes butterfly sis.. it’s true that most families mess their own family just to keep their daughter’s hone wala husband happy…

One of my dear friend sister divorced coz her husband always & always ask to bring things & cash from her parents…when the girl refused they gave her divorce & took the baby boy with them…sometimes iam thinking if the baby was a girl will they keep with them or let to the girl home…there are 2 years now but my friend sister isnt ok just she cant meet her baby…

I think we need to make a law on this fact…coz everyone isnt too rich to give it to them daughter…& i observed in pak in this last years that people who are poor are trying to give evrything that rich people give to them daughter…is a good thing? i really dont like this…

I feel every girl should stand up to her rights & say I refuse to buy myself a husband.
In my community, a very small community there is no dowry system. If a man demands dowry, he is shunned & he may not be married as the word spreads that he has asked for dowry and no father will give the boy his daughter. If the parents so wish, they may gift the new couple whatever they wish but the demand from the boy shouldn’t come.

I feel most look at it as a very fast and lucrative way of getting money often forgetting that money gotten by messing up another family’s life definitely wont get them happiness or peace of mind. I just wish more girls voiced their displeasure for this horrid social custom.