Life is a roller coaster ride and I have had my share of it in the past two years. I wrote something about memories a while back and now it’s time again.
A dear friend of mine had an accident two years ago, and since then she has:-
- Had over 8 surgeries
- Had 14 memory losses
- Had lost her voice
- Had lost feelings in her legs
- Had lost feelings in her arms
Despite all things docs said, like she won’t be able to talk, she won’t be able to talk. This girl has spoken, has walked on her feet, has been able to portray the most loveliest of ideas and emotions through her writing. Most of you could just guess who this might be hmm
All due to the hospital’s blunder that they didn’t test her when she had the head to head collision in her car, they just said minor injury to leg and sent her home two years ago.
That one mistake led her into a whirlwind and has turned everything in her life upside down. There is absolutely no one who knows her that doesn’t think and believe she is an angel. And yet again.. today I am sitting here to be in her book of “those she doesn’t remember”.. ofcourse I will manage it.. so what if I have to yet again remind her who I am, I did it 14 times before. And so what if she doesn’t remember who I am, I know who she is.. I am more charged than ever and have my mum’s blessings and my friend’s good wishes with me.
I got this sms where it says “I am going to be back in a moment but if I don’t.. please take care of your mum and everyone around you.. you mean the world to me. I feel we are going to be together for a long time.. but if it’s not the case please forgive me”
And yet again, Allah has taken her n back to a point where she doesn’t remember anyone .. only thing she remembers is her nickname and my name – If she says it in front of her dad.. things can go a bit wrong 
Something amazing happened.. yet again
Docs said yesterday that she won’t make it, she hasn’t responded to anything the past 10 hours. But we been praying since morning and knew God would listen. But when the docs gave everyone a few minutes to talk to her, I suggested to her sister that she takes an mp3 with my voice and plug it on her since she wasn’t responding to anyone. And after one minute the docs told her sister to GO OUT HURRY GO OUT OF THE ROOM!!!
And what happened I asked her sis.. she goes “The moment the nurse plugged the mp3 in her ears, just seconds later sis started to breath…” SubhanAllah nothing is impossible for God only he is able to do what everyone thinks is impossible..
Sometimes I wonder how this world is going around. Now I know… It’s still running because God has placed on this earth individuals who are here to teach us that “This is Pure LOVE.. this is what you should mean when you SAY you love someone” … She told me once that no matter how deep in a coma I am at I can hear you.. if only you call my name. Yes my Love, I believe you I really do
The above incident is as true as the fact that you and I are breathing right now. It’s one of my life’s most treasured moments. Something I felt I could share with all who think that these things only happen in movies.. to make them see .. ke haan mere yaar
“Sacha pyar hota hei kyunke I am experiencing it..”
Related book : The Vintage Book of Amnesia: An Anthology of Writing on the Subject of Memory Loss
Note : There might be very little or no commenting from this special someone.. do dua for her pls
September 21st, 2008 at 11:43 am
Hmmm I have seen what true love is wid u n ur spl someone and I have seen that faith and miracles and belief and love go far beyond the reaches of science.
God bless the two of you. A thank you for teaching me what i should believe and value in my life.Duas always.
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September 21st, 2008 at 11:51 am
Allaah ka laakh-laakh shukar hai..haan sacha pyaar hota hai wo pyaar jo ek misaal hai…parh kar ankhien nam hogai hai..kya likhun, kuch likha bhi nahi jaa raha hai…bas itna kehna chahungi ke Allaah Rasool ki hifz-o-aman main ho aap dono..Allaah saari mushkilein asaan karein aur ek haseen zindagi aap dono ko dein.
Sab yaad ajaiga bhai Aapka pyaar usko is andhere se nikaal laaiga…Bless u both.
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September 21st, 2008 at 12:11 pm
wow
amazing.
I am impressed…
thanks for sharing
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September 21st, 2008 at 1:36 pm
OMG..is that Bhooli Baali?? May Allah(SWT) grant her good health and long life. Just came her through blog hardly a few weeks ago and have found her to be an absolute cutie. Prayers for her!
September 21st, 2008 at 2:40 pm
All I wanna say is that she’s our miracle child and we’re blessed to know an angel like her. You and her are one of the very few examples of what true love means and what it means to stand by each other through thick and thin. So blessed to have you both in my life and I wish you both nothing but the best.
May Allah grant our angel good health and long and happy life. She deserves nothing less.
For you, all I gotta say is you’re an inspiration for the people around you so continue being the way you are! Lots of love to you both.
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September 21st, 2008 at 2:43 pm
Another thing I want to add is that doctors go by science and we humans have faith in God. People who think science is bigger than anything else need to understand that miracles are unexplainable. Science can never be bigger than God so keep your faith in God and know that he’s listening to your prayers.
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September 21st, 2008 at 3:23 pm
saanj, aarzoo, awahid, fariha and anam.. thx for the prayers .. may no one ever go through this ameen.
September 21st, 2008 at 10:45 pm
sincere prayers for her
May Allah bless her with health
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September 22nd, 2008 at 1:44 am
She has memory losses – but she remembers you – I think you are soulmates!
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September 22nd, 2008 at 1:50 am
you may be the only one whose prayers have effect on her – be strong.
-Latest post from Asmas blog ..The top priority…
September 22nd, 2008 at 1:51 am
Thx Duffer bro.. and Asma sis yes you are so right. Had a few words with her and amazingly she is in her own little world.. asking me who is everyone around her, as in her parents n brother and sisters. And saying these people say when we are ok they will take us to you hmmm amazing as it is and even tougher for some to believe I guess it really shows that sometimes in life one does go through experiences that even science can’t explain.
September 22nd, 2008 at 1:57 am
She still remembers you?
Its a very difficult situation for you. hang in there – In love like that, be there for her – even if she is unable to give back what you are giving her.
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September 22nd, 2008 at 2:00 am
I have heard you are telepathic with your soulmate – that is how they know you are in trouble even if you are away from each other – its a spiritual concept – I think that is what you are doing – healing her in the spiritual sense – she may never recover in a physical sense but her soul responds to yours – that is why she gets well when you are there – so stay in the picture if you have decided to go ahead and be there for her for life – good luck.
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September 22nd, 2008 at 3:26 am
Ji Asma sis..God bless her and well the question of deciding to be there for her has been finalized when I got into this na back off kya karna ab to har pal koshish to get her back to herself hmm
September 22nd, 2008 at 10:30 am
May Allah Always Be With You Soulmates !!!
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September 24th, 2008 at 3:54 am
amazing…
Allah se dua he ke wo us masoom ko jald se jald mukammal shifa aur sehet de aur pyar me kabhi judai ke lamhaat na aeyn. aameen~!
Waqas bhai, himmat na haarna. Allah Rehem karne wala he… phir ye to maheena bhi mubarak he… sab theek hojaega in sha Allah.
September 24th, 2008 at 6:49 am
Wakas bhaaai!!! I feel guilty for not reading this post earlier coz I was little busy with office work.
SubhanaAllah it’s a true love that made her to come back to life. Believe me I was having a feeling about you two once I started knowing you both. May Allah bless her with good health..Aameen. Our dua’s are always with you, bro. InshaAllah you are gona have a beautiful partner in your life..she is absolutely perfect and cutest.
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September 24th, 2008 at 7:33 am
@ nayni, raahbar, masood
Thx for the lovely duas.. we almost getting there, but inshAllah will manage as she is hanging in there and with your duas I will too. And will post not so far in the future when she is back here
September 24th, 2008 at 9:37 am
This is a very lovely and inspiring story, Wakas. It is not easy to share something that’s this much personal and important to you. But I’m glad that you did, because InshaAllah, this will give so much hope for a lot of your readers.
Both you and Bholi Bhali are in my duas, always. I’m a big fan of her blog, she’s so talented
May Allah bless you both, Ameen.
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September 25th, 2008 at 5:35 am
@ nadia
Thx sis.. Allah bless you both as well . ameen
September 27th, 2008 at 5:34 pm
May God Grant her health soon [Ameen]
boss i salute u for being there with her in this part of her life where usually people tend to leave the person who is in such a situation!!
May Allah[SWT] grant both of u patience!!![Ameen]
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September 27th, 2008 at 7:29 pm
God bles you sis hmm
If you knew her personally you would know that a person like that can go through this a million years and I would still be there.. lots of duas back to you for taking time to dua.. thx need tons
October 5th, 2008 at 9:17 am
Hmmmm Jab Allah kismat mein mushkil raste likhta hai, to mazboot joote bhi bakhshta hai,mazboot housla bhi ata karta hai! Sometimes Allah takes what we hold dear away from us and sometimes grant our every wish one after another, but whatever he does its only to test us and to let us know that we are humans and HE our creator, Wo kuch bhi kar sakta hai!
Kehte hain na ke jisko chot lagti hai wohi janta hai hmmm, nobody absolutely none can understand what the other person is going through! Yes, no doubt being their friends, loved once they might find it painful to see their dear once going through tough time but they cant even imagine the 1% of the pain they are facing each and every sec hmm
Still they have to smile coz Life has to go on! Allah ta’alah shower his blessings upon every indiviual praying for eachother!
January 26th, 2009 at 4:05 pm
All my duas are with you both.
Your blog really brought tears to my eyes. I had to think about that special person who means the world to me and how granted we sometimes take people around us and those beautiful relationships we share with them.
Be strong, I believe in both of you.
August 28th, 2009 at 6:25 pm
god bless her, and you bhaiya!!
indeed sacha pyaatr hota hai! may u both be blessed with health and unconditional love!!
best wishes!
August 29th, 2009 at 6:26 am
May everyone be blessed vershi God bless