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Are we desis angry by nature?

Posted on 11. Oct, 2008

I was just wondering about this one since I have seen this too many times now on various occasions that some issues that some non-desi would have handled differently.. our desi friends would have handled totally differently.

I mean there are ways to see a situation, and a smart way of seeing a situation is from the point of view of the person who is really messing your mind up.. right? well easier said than done my friend. Or is it?

How do you see this desi – NonDesi thing when it comes to being angry on different occasions. Do you feel we are a totally different breed? Or is it that we HAVE to prove it to all westerners that YES we go nuts a lot more often than you. Just try to poke us..

Do share your views please. Are we desis angry by nature.. or do we FAKE it?

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ڈفر

12. Oct, 2008

WASHWALLAY
maarra tum yeh sab kidar se dhoondti Ae?
at first i had seen a Girls Figght Video at LUMS (that was written) or wherever but thats an educational institute for sure. what was the fight man and feel the gentrry around
- chall Ranay roktay hain inko
- oay sabar thehr or yar
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6R8tKuPff8g

but since then i have become proud viewer of such live fight ;)

Asma

12. Oct, 2008

I think we are more emotional – Not only do we get annoyed at once, we also love and show loyalty the same way – The non desis are very self centred – each man for himself – We live in societies and also watch the back of the ones we love – cant have everything :)

-Latest post from Asmas blog ..I have been tagged by Ayesha!

Aleena

12. Oct, 2008

My Allah! Hmmm I felt really really sad watching this vid hmmm! And written at the end “Qayamat kareeb hai” Well thats so true hmm!

Unfortunately and very unfortunately its lack of sabr, patience and education that makes ppl go crazy like that, let it be desi or non-desi! Jab akal nahin or jab sharm o haya nahin to koi kuch bhi kar sakta hai. Apni izzat apne hath mein hoti hai hmmm! Allah give us all hidiyat and keep us away from making fun of overselves and others, Ameen!

Gussa akal ka chiraagh bhuja deta hai, how true hmmm!

butterfly2008

12. Oct, 2008

First time dekha hein paki women fights so ajeeb lagty hein weise…

I think the difference between desi & non desi is the caste…oftlenty listen “vo kon hota hein eise bolne wala…etc” sentences like this, pump up desi people..

masood

12. Oct, 2008

Unbelievable..they are so wild..Allah bachaye aisi aurton sey

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djmolvi

12. Oct, 2008

Its normal for desi people to get angry much more faster then others.

Just take an example of Kenya runners, they take the pole places in Olympics :O Because they have good genes.

So we desi cannot change our “traditional” habits.

Versha

12. Oct, 2008

i believe desi are little more angry by nature… and that is not to harm anyone. this is just how we are. We are very emotional and even when we are angry we think brfore talking… so yes we Desis are little more angry then otherss

Saanj

13. Oct, 2008

I feel Asians on the whole are emotional and express all emotions loud n clear :) They have a flair for drama as well !!

I feel its more to do with the fact that we are always living on the edge… so many people around, competitiveness is high and we have to be loud to be heard :P thats the general thought . So we laugh loud, cry loud and fight louder than the rest of the world.

-Latest post from Saanjs blog ..A life with a Purpose…or without?

Ordinary Girl

19. Oct, 2008

Aik tu jee wasiey hee hum log zara loud hein….ghussa bhee loud, piyar bhee loud. Plus, humein maslay bhee tu in goray logon say ziyada hein naa jee!! In ki naukri gaiyee tu aaram say social welfare pay chalay gaiey….phar desi banda tu bhooka mar jahay gaa naa…gurbat bhee bara ghussa dilati hai jee! Phir hamari society (yahan apnay Pakistan ki baat kar rahi hoon) mein frustration bhee buhat hai….traffic kaa haal dheeknay wala hota hai. Mein Lahore mein rehti hoon….kahi dafa dheek chuki hoon kay kisi ki bike zara see kisi car say touch hoiee, bus jee, car walay naa ayoo dheeka naa taoo, shuru hoo giya bike walay ki pitai karnay…yaa agar bike pay doo larkay hein aur car wala akaila hai tu bus phir us ki shamat…waheen sarak pay dosray ki dhoonayi. Aur duniya ird gird tamasha dheek rahi hoti hai.

Aisee cheez dheek kar bara dil karta hai kay kash mein bhee koi tagra, Sher-jawan type larka hoti….waheen apni gari rookti aur rakh kay dono parties ku aik aik lagati aur apnay apnay rastay pay bheejti. Yeh ird gird walay tamasha dheeknay walay rooktay kiuon nahi in logon ku?!

P.S. Lu jee!! Chara dia naa mujhey bhee ghussa. Dheeka! that was my desi genes at work. We people are emotional like that, brother.

-Latest post from Ordinary Girls blog ..Are moms always right?

Ordinary Girl

22. Oct, 2008

Tauba AstagfirAllah!! I just saw the video!! :O :O :O

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