If you only have 3 days to live…

This could probably be one of those eye-opener posts if you really want to think about it.

God forbid.. if you found out that you only had 3 days left due to some illness or something that might happen. What would be the 5 things you would do in order to make yourself feel peaceful when the time really comes and knocks on your door. hmm

If I would manage to get that much courage to go through something like this I would do the following..

  • Meet personally all those people who I didn’t get a chance to meet for ages and say sorry to them for not being able to give them the time they deserved
  • Say sorry to my dad for the little tiny ups and downs I had with him when I was a bit younger.. and tell him how much I value that he is my dad and what he has done for me. And tell my mum how much I love her.
  • Tell my brothers that whatever I have done for them since their birth till now, always had one intention behind it. That they would be successful and be proud that their older brother cares so much that he would loose his sleep just so they could be safely tucked in their bed.
  • Sign papers that after my death all my organs that can be reused for someone else be taken out.
  • Distribute all the money that I might have at that point to charity.

And when looking over the list above hmm surprisingly enough isn’t it true that most of the things we can do when we are given so less time to live, we can do right NOW!! hmm Amazing how we tend to pinch ourselves when something like this comes up.

So my dear friends.. you tell us what are the five things you would do? And when you are done with the list please join me and do atleast two of the things today :)

11 Comments »

  1. ڈفر Says:

    - will ask Allah for forgiveness
    - will try to go out and distribute my money in poor and needy
    - will say sorry to everybody, who got hurt coz of me

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  2. Saanj Says:

    1) Be a lil selfish and spend some time with those I love :)
    2) Saying sorry I do it but I guess would want to apologise to those who are hurt unintentionally by anythin I have done
    3)Donate all working organs that can be used ( me has already willed it).
    4)Leave all I possess in a trust which can fund a shelter for the homeless.
    5) Spend time with my children and probably leave notes as to what I want instilled in them to be good humanbeings.

    -Latest post from Saanjs blog ..Working at being happy.

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  3. only try my best to ask Allah for forgiveness
    and then try to close down my whole sites in these days or hand over someone

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  4. butterfly2008 Says:

    1)Will ask to my family & friends to apologise me if i hurted them in my life.
    2)will write a private note for each members of my family to tell them how much i loved them & dont miss me afer i will go, not crying for me too
    3)Give everything i have to the poor people around me.
    4)Pray Allah to keep me without pain & quick
    5)Call Crazefm to record my voice coz no one had ideas how is m voice :-) no just joke…will stay alone to appreciate my last time on earth

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  5. Versha Says:

    mmm there many things that i would like to do… but few imporant ones are…
    1. tell all the loved ones i love them and they mean world to me….because as humans we hardly express our love enough times.
    2. i will apologies for all the mistakes i have done… and i will ask for forgiveness
    3. give ma working orgains to the pple in need… and tell ma dad to open a oldage house with all the money i have.
    4. i would wana meet ma crazee family in real
    5. spend some time alone with my frd cum sis.. annie she is ma life loveee her a lot… i would wana die joking and playin with her… and givin her kasam of never cryin for anything at all in life…

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  6. masood Says:

    Well… Wakas bhai, I have similar 3 things to do as of yours
    1. Meet personally all those people who I didn’t get a chance to meet for ages and say sorry to them for not being able to give them the time they deserved.

    2. Tell my ammi how much I love her.

    3. Writing the will as it is a very important task to be done at this stage.

    4. Give my money to the deserved charity organizations.

    5. I will repent for all my sins which has been done intentionally or unintentionally.

    InshaAllah, we all will feel that every day is our last day in this world so that to practice Islamic humanity in this world and should leave a sign of a pious and great personality.

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  7. Shona Says:

    Hmmm Bhaijaan. Such a sensitive topic.
    I really cannot think of just 5 things that I might wanna do if I find out that I had 3 days to live..I at times live with this thought so I do this ..

    Most important things…

    1. Try and keep my luved ones happy by meeting them personally and apologise if things havent worked the way they wanted because of me.

    2. Give whatever ish left in my account to my luved ones first who are in need if there are any and then give the resht to the needy people which I try and do.

    3. Surely want to just give main organs to the people who can live because of me, which already I am part of it.

    4. Spend more and more time with my luved ones and try to keep them happy and at peace.

    3. Sit and meditate and pray for my luved ones the last day of my life and find peace there for myself.

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  8. MZ Says:

    @ Dffuer it seems u’ve lot of money, yar do one thing kindly lend some money to Zardari coz his reign is in trouble. Ok take this one serious. :smile:

    -Latest post from MZs blog ..Kabhi waqt milay tou aa jao

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  9. Quite hmmm sensitive this one is hmmmm :)

    1. I would ask all my family and friends 1 by 1 to forgive me if I ever hurt them jane-anjane, And thank them for their Love and care!

    2. Donate away everything that is mine and useful to ppl less fortunate.

    3. Be with my mum for some time and try my best to give her housla that this is life and plz ziyada ghum nahin karna.

    4. Pray and Ask Allah to forgive me for everything that I did and he didnt like, and Request him to give me place to rest in peace next to my Halfheart sis!

    5. Spend my last day with the Love of my Life, my jaan.. and tell him that knowing him made me such a better person, and that im really thankful for everything he did for me and how much I value our relationship! And then take my last breath in his arms :)

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  10. Wakas Mir Says:

    @ duffer
    Nice one bro

    @ Saanj
    Yups saanj, homeless peeps ke liye itna karna is the least one can do na

    @ Abdul Qudoos
    Thx for commenting :)

    @ butterfly2008
    Yes the last one you can do now too na.. no one heard u sis

    @ Versha
    Thx for commenting sis

    @ Masood

    Great stuff bro :)

    @ shona

    Aww 5 is good one sis..

    @ MZ
    hehe

    @ Bholibhali

    Hmmm God bless you and may you have a long life hmmm :)

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  11. Dua Says:

    Quite realistic N extremly touchy post as well as all replies hmm :-) God bless -

    If I got to know that I have just this limited time to live in this world, realistically speakin I think I would have:

    * Asked those I know family/friends/dear ones to forgive me if I ever misbehaved or hurt them N told them how much I loved them.

    * Donated everything that’s mine N useful to charity.

    * Personally met a dear one - thanked them N reminded them always to be strong as no matter how tough life gets: things could have been worse.

    * Write a letter where I tell my parents/family how thankful I am for everything they have done for me N tell then that I forgive them every injustice from their side as well requested them to bury me here (where they gona be living) N not back in homeland.

    * N the last whole day Cry my eyes out N asked AllAh to forgive me for anything N everything N have mercy for the next life ahead.

    Life is so unpredictible - N we’re so lost in this life hmmm - It’s now that matter not next min, next day.

    God bless - Infinity :-)

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