Sometimes we feel so helpless and yet again we have this faith in God as well. So if our faith is so strong in God then why do we go helpless? Isn’t that the time when we really should be showing how much we believe in him and his powers? Isn’t that the time when we should just let all things rest on his shoulders because we know he will take us out of this situation or that situation?
Life is definitely not a bed of roses, but it obviously doesn’t mean that it’s thorns all the way. We can either be sad that roses have thorns or be smiling that the thorns have roses around them. It’s just the way we look at things.
Being helpless does serve a purpose on its own.. it makes us weak in faith and makes us in a sense realize that we human beings and anything can happen anytime without us having any affect over it.
Lots of prayers going out to a very dear friend who needs lots of them to decide something that is in its own a life saving decision..
What in your view is being helpless..?
January 30th, 2009 at 8:18 am
whenever you advise ppl like this, you are told “only victim can feel my/his pain”, no doubt YES.
i completely agree with you, if we face such situation that’s the time to show our faith in Allah, He is there for us, that’s the time we need to put our pains in His basket to cure. But we do act vice versa, we forget Him when we have no pains or declare Him the reason of our pain(s). The place, where we forget our Lord or dont seek His sympathies, there we stand helpless.
January 30th, 2009 at 10:07 am
Very well said Duffer.. thx for your views
February 2nd, 2009 at 6:56 am
Touching topic Wakas bahi, coz vo hy baat ha jaty hein “jispe guzar rahy hoty hein ousko pata hota hein” per nowdays there isnt one person in this world who doesnt suffer or havent any problem i think…we all have matter just all our prob are different…
I could understand what U wanna say…God is great and as i post a story on crazefm forum “Why God allows pains” i think jitna kareeb hoge God se itny help milty hein….and I believe on It coz jabse dil se i started prayers my all duas always fulfill just One is always waiting God help…
As we know God do Miracles so believe on Him and dil se pray He will fulfill Duas
And agree with Duffer comment sometimes people forget God when they are happy but its bad to do this If U are asking help in your sadness be thankfull on your happiness…
May the decision She will take will be the good One and She will get well soon…May God bless U both, always be together and Happy(Ameen)
February 2nd, 2009 at 4:59 pm
Hmmm A very touchy topic indeed bhaijaan.. Feeling of helplessness is a feeling of self pity too. It makes u sulk in ur own worries and doesnt let u take or make ne right choices…
Its very true that a person who goes thru it understands it well but I would rather say, if u have gone thru it then it was a lesson that u learnt as well. So u need to come out of it with ur own will. There might be people who can help u with it, but finally its left to every individual wat effort they put in to come out of it..
Life surely is not easy but if u make it look helpless, u will fall more in it and then it wud b quite late to come out of it..
Meditate and have all ur faith in God.. Believe in the prayers that people would say it for you. Dil se harr ek dua kahin na kahin lagni hi hoti hain..You need to have that faith in God and urself..
If not today, one day things will change
I pray your friend makes the right choice for the long term and decides its not juz his or her life but lots of life thats associated with him/her.
God Bless u n ur friend always