I am writing a lot these days about kids and families and so on. Reason being that I am seeing a lot around me the kind of “care” some children show towards their parents. When someone is ill their sense of being touchy increases a lot and when they are parents they do expect that kids do take out time to ask them how they are doing and so on.
When one knows that your parent is ill to the extreme, then how come some children find other things more important rather then spending time with someone who is the PRIME reason that they are in this world? If it was in my control I would put all those type of children on a big ship and send them so far away that their parents never ever go through the hell of finding out that them caring for their kids was just a total loss.
Why don’t these kids see that them not caring for their parents at the hour of need is a disgrace to humanity and I personally feel that anyone who doesn’t have feelings for their parents isn’t fit to be called a human being.. and yes not even an animal, since even animals have some bit of affection for their parents.
April 29th, 2009 at 6:01 pm
Well Wakas this happens all over – happens but should definitely not be happening of course.
Parents are quite emotional N sensitive when it comes to their kids N when they are like ill N not doing so well , when then they get eksta touchy which is more than natural.
How kids can find other things important when either of their parents are not doing well is obviously because they don’t realize how much they mean to them N how much they have given them N how much they (kids) gona regret not being their for them
when they really needed them – when just a soft smiling look or a hug could give them so much of pleasure N peace of heart hmm
God give good health to everyone not doing well N make kids realize that their world is beautiful ONLY because of their parents N their prayers for them. God bless
April 30th, 2009 at 4:27 am
agreed. and I would like to add that actually these kids are extremely unfortunate, because in fact they are the one who losing time and opportunity to care and look after their parents, which come in life ONLY ONE TIME. And moreover they are also missing out on unboughtable and indescribable pleasure and satisfaction you get when you do a smallest things for your parents e.g give them a glass of water.
But one thing I can say surely, one day they will regret, but the time and opportunity would be GONE……….!!
وقاص معافی چاہتا ہوں کمزور انگلش کے لیے۔
April 30th, 2009 at 5:59 am
@ Khurshid – bilkul theek kaha, as a glass of water given to your parents is an ibadat on its self..
April 30th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
Well dont blame Kids this is not his/her fault.Now a days its happen everywhere & this is because what we input definatly we get the same output. most of the parent of today do not give the proper respect as their parents deserve & think their parents are not enough educated to take any decission so they do not bear there restriction & involvement in their kid’s life. this is main reason basic he strong nai tu kia keraiii ga Kid…
May 1st, 2009 at 1:10 pm
I couldn’t agree more…
May 1st, 2009 at 6:51 pm
Wickedly put S very nice.. yes bachon ki ghalti nahi its usually parents and the surroundings.. if not handled properly in early age aise hi hoga phir na.