After seeing my mum in hospital the past few days i have seen one big difference in the way each of us is handling the situation. Apart from few of us “guys” who love our mums there are guys who don’t care that much.
My little sister who is 12 years old, prefers to spend time with mum helping her while even sleeping in a bed next to her in hospital rather than playing with her little cousins.
On the contrary some people would spend their whole week loafing around rather than spending even more than 10 minutes with their mum or asking about her health. This happens a lot these days.
I personally feel that my whole world revolves around my mother. Apart from the fact that she has given me so many reasons to love her to bits and take care of her I can’t think of one reason that would make me NOT long to see her everyday in the hospital and not pray that I wish she gets well.
I wrote something for mum some time back.. Dear Mum .. this one is for you
When someone is ill in your family only then you will realize their true value in your life, not only that, but also a way to find out how much others care about you is when you yourself fall ill. They say a person who gets very ill is also emotionally touchy, and that is very much true.
Give as much time as you can to those who are ill so atleast you fill that gap that is being put in them due to the medication.
God bless everyone and may God give everyone the understanding of how to treat those that are ill.. ameen
May 31st, 2009 at 8:16 pm
Ameen-sum-Ameen to you prayer
God bless you mom with the best of health N a wonderful long healthy life, filled with smiles N joy – innsha-AllAh 
(Ameen-sum-Ameen)
The ability to feel others pain, is a very treasure gift from above – let it then be the pain of someone loved one or anyone stranger, one can only feel their pain when God grant that kind of “heart” which actually does feel the pain other humans are goin through. N you said it so right, only in such times one get to know how much anyone care in actual hmm
May 31st, 2009 at 9:59 pm
God bless your mom wakas bro .since iknew she is in my pray and hope she will recover soon with good health and long life . Ameen -
June 1st, 2009 at 4:40 am
Ameen to ur prayers Wakas and she is always in my Duas. she will be okie soon.
Hmmm…wouldnt agree with u saying
“When someone is ill in your family only then you will realize their true value in your life”
But again it depends upon individual pple so its 50/50some pple do realise it after their dear one is ill or some people just dont want to bother with it..hmmm..have just had a recent experience on this..
All i would say here is life is a precious,why dont we love our family members and treasure each moment in a memory where when remembered just brings smiles rather than tears…
God bless u Wakas and wishisng ur mum a speedy recovery..Ameen..
Duas always for u all..
June 1st, 2009 at 12:05 pm
Thx for your views n duas.
Yes jalpari sis it’s true its different with everyone, maybe some people do realize only when someone is ill. but what i kind of meant was that the person who is ill realizes who is close and who is not when they are ill themselves.
God bless..
June 3rd, 2009 at 12:43 am
god bless your mom bhaiya!
yes! mother is the only one who knwz us inside out. she is the only one who can understand us without any words and seeing some ppl dnt care abt there mother is sad! I pray that ur mom getz well soon and pray to god to give her the healthy life and to give her the sakhti to fight! ameen sum ameen~
god bless u aunty ji and bhaiya!
indeed very eye openin statement!
god bless!
June 4th, 2009 at 5:39 pm
May Allah bless Ur mom Wakas bahi with good health n long life…
I had one exerience 10yrs ago and ys i can say tht people around U and sometimes ur own family member will realise the importance of someone in family when this person is ill…means will pay more attention to this person..