Well ages later after putting my soul into relations online i have come to a conclusion at a point where i am seeing that its really the actions that count not words and sometimes sharing too much of your life makes people go rude when you stop sharing due to obvious reasons. At a point where my mum is ill and in hospital with cancer i am seeing people who claim to know me in the online world coming up with their own funny versions to make themselves feel right. At a time where mums health is as such don’t some dumbos realize that for me their views about me and my life especially when they are false mean nothing.
The only time i get the feeling of talking face to face with someone is when a loved one is put at a spot where their life depends on certain values and saying something just for the sake of saying can make their life come to an end. I run crazefm and the radio has lots of different characters where some i hold very near n some who i thought were near, those that have no respect for certain things that are my business have no right to associate their name with any relation connected to me.
So readers this is coming from someone who has spoken to thousands of people since his online radio career and i believe that the only person who has any right to know what you are upto and want to do is you!!!
October 9th, 2009 at 1:25 am
bhai first thing come first right now ur mom is ur first priority
rest all things have to be stalled. things that brings out good in human is at this time that u will be able to see, who stands with you in thick and thin.
we pray to god for aunty ji to get well soon, there strength in prayers. pray to everyone’s mom to be healthy and live long
October 9th, 2009 at 1:35 am
It’s not about thick n thin sis
It’s about right or wrong.
Right = Mothers come first
Wrong = Online relations come first
October 9th, 2009 at 2:12 am
Wakas bahi Family comes first . Secondly I need to clear something to those people who are pathetic bird brains looser and they talk about “that crazefm don’t have right to associate their name with any relation connected to them”
First of all this is a community radio . It is not a commercial radio where crazefm makes lot of money through advertising and selling membership and products.
Wakas I don’t know him personally but I am pretty sure that he is funding this radio station expense from his pocket and I know the fact that you to spend lot of money to broadcasting online radio where thousands of listener .
With Mr wakas effort we have desi platform where we can share our problem and get to know each other problem and learn from there and definitely can listen good music.
I have one simple question from those people who talk about “business & relationship” can they tell us what they have done for the community rather than just talking crap . Before you talk to anyone Put yourself in the situation where other peoples are . Hopefully that will explain alot.
Wakas bahi our all prayer and wishes with you and with your family. Wish we could do more for you. Don’t worry about people . We are crazefm community like a family. If one family member going through hard time we should support each other.
I apologize if I offend someone
October 9th, 2009 at 11:28 am
Nafees bro thx for your kind words and concern. Yes i have been paying the bills on crazefm but a few individuals have also contributed as much as they can and they love and care they showered is a gift in itself. But the intention behind my post was that at a time where a mother is ill how inhumane is it that people from across the other end of this world who u hold nearer to ur heart than your own family color
things and present them in a way which only makes them look dumb. I have shared enough but as i knew better i thought that maybe maybe if i see someone as a close relation or a sis or a bro they might see me as one too. But as i am sitting with mum at the hospital right now i feel that out of 100 people 3 or 4 genuine people is what i came across. I am talking from the point of view of an admin of crazefm that till now i have paid over 80% of my salary to crazefm even when i was off work i paid my savings so the people who one day like today would say ‘what has wakas bhai done for us he is just there and so what if he called me a sis or bro lets try to butt into his life cuz me own him’
sorry but life doesnt work like that. I for one am cutting off with anyone o feel is not worth my time and especially those that say respect me but dont realize how a mothers love and her illness can change fairytale endings bringing new people into our lives that held me up at a time i needed them in REAl. And on top of that there are kids who dont realize that when you dont let your love go because of a relation such as a mother you are destined to hell and we do have such people who are as little kids and know nothing as how one should respect a mother and her wishes. If something God forbid happens to my mum how many of those so called friends can give a second chance.. I see it this way you either see me as someone who will not make a wrong choice or you wont. There is no middle line here
thx
October 9th, 2009 at 2:24 am
AllAh the most merciful is gonna make amMi well [innsha-AllAh] – N as for the rest you wrote, I completely agree with you hmmm. Have always believed that actions speak louder than words, N one can see from small things what’s actually in their heart N how genuine they are. So basically one shoul not expect much, N if one is expecting unrealistically from you then that is their issue
AllAh bless you N your loved ones, Infinity.
October 9th, 2009 at 3:27 am
Bhaiya you are 100 percent right, sometimes one has to put restrictions on the worldly relations when it comes to family. and yesh indeed when our family needs us–our friends will understand us and give us space tht is needed! and i have seen tht pple who claim to be with @ our side always or tht they knw us! tend to be the 1st ones to hurt us! the only thing tht i really want to say is May God give you the strength to face all these problems with smile! and may you always see the Positive out look on life!
god be with and may all the negativity vanish never you!
god bless you and ammi and your loved ones hamesha with health and happiness!
be blessed bhaiya!
October 9th, 2009 at 3:30 am
opps sorry there is error
god be with and may all the negativity vanish aroundyou!**
god bless you and ammi and your loved ones hamesha with health and happiness!
be blessed bhaiya!
October 9th, 2009 at 3:49 am
How is your mom doing now?
October 9th, 2009 at 11:12 am
She is in hospital but i hope ke comes home soon ameen
October 9th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
Bunch N bunch of prayers for amMi, [innsha-AllAh] AllAh’s the most mercyful he’s gonna give long healthy life, [Ameen-sum-Ameen] –
Sometimes in life we don’t understand why what is happening, but we need to realize that behind everythin there is a reason which only AllAh knows. I would again say: It’s our expectations that mess up everythin, so less expectations fever disappointments is what I believe in.
We learn from our N others mistakes N we need to grow through life – with time priorities change N should be respected N accepted, in my views that the right way
AllAh bless, Infinity N beyond.
October 9th, 2009 at 1:01 pm
ameen sum-ameen too your dua Dua didi!
bhaiya currently you shouldnt worry about People think! because Currently you focus indeed should be your mother! with your smile she will feel better! just for her you have to forget what people are saying and doing and give her your full attention
Allah will be with you and
she will be well and healthy!
may god be with you and your family hamesha!
October 11th, 2009 at 5:05 pm
Bhai ur reply to Nafees bro brought tears to my eyes, God bless u. we all pray aunty ji will get better soon, you just be with her give her happiness and fulfill her wishes and dreams. Ameen
October 11th, 2009 at 5:20 pm
Yes dua vershi n nira sis hmm life puts us in spots we just have to get out of with the help of Allmighty.. what hell most of us are going through taking those decisions further is not a joke but sadly it is for those that have no idea what love means either for a mother or someone else.
October 11th, 2009 at 7:43 pm
really wish and pray for your mom…she will be fine and get home soon… You take care…you r doing right thing…by giving all the comforting words for each one of us listening… god bless u..
October 12th, 2009 at 2:38 pm
thx ekta ji.. God bless