I have often done radio shows about people who tend to act very nice nice from outside and from inside they would probably never want your best in the first place. We got few of those in our family, they act as if they love you the most and behind the back they would be like “oh he doing this well must be something behind it” etc etc

I mean isn’t there any other thing people can do apart from feeling “bad” for other people doing well in some part of their life. I am someone who is very much down to earth in all possible ways, helps everyone when needed, and often I get good compliments but despite the helpful nature I would often get few nuts whom I have helped taking the wrong end of the stick and try to play cute and at the same time very wierd.

Family issues usually escelate when I face to face say to the person to “chill” since this is not the way I would like to have things revolving around my personal life, but what about you guys?

How do you deal with it when someone butts into your personal life and wants to all the nitty gritty details?

I often hear about people who say that some people in their family try to make their place in their personal matters without being invited to do so.What is the reason behind it that an uncle or aunt can come in between your family issues and still do that over and over again without being told to stop? Well it’s because the elders in a family, in your family, haven’t told the other party about their boundries. How else is it possible that one person would go on and on with their “judgements and orders” if the elders in your family let them know to “chill”

I feel often that life would be even more beautiful if some people, who I don’t wish to mention, cared for their issues that are far more critical and sad than what they are trying to fix.

What would you do if someone from your family, tries to take place of your mum and mess around the heads of your family?  I would advice myself to relax and not let it mess my mind since no one can control my mind just like no one should have the power to control yours.

So what you say? How do you deal with people like that?

Since most of you know that I got married 26th February and I haven’t written a few weeks before that so here comes a new post about Marriage.

For me Marriage before getting married was an amazing and respectful relation and partnership and after marriage it means even more. A marriage that is based on love and respect for one another has lots of strength within itself rather than just being with one personf or the sake of being with them.

I have realized that in the past month if you are with someone who is understanding and loving and really realizes how things work together life really does become heaven on earth.

Marriage for me is something i recommend to everyone who obviously hasn’t married yet, so married people you can chill, as no need to get into it again as one person is enough and deserves your love from the bottom of your heart thats only for them and only them.

What does marriage mean to you? Care to share?