Staying positive is a skill that can be developed and below are five steps to staying positive (ofcourse there can be more)

1. Take a deep breath when a situation tries to detrack you
2. Ignore any negative message sent your way, just grab the constructive part of it
3. Talk to a friend who has a positive mindset
4. Accept that making mistakes is a natural thing that everyone does
5. Don’t HATE people, you can definitly dislike their way of thinking but hating them wouldn’t do you any good

There have been various times in the past when people have managed to push my buttons. But I guess that’s how the phase of learning usually is. Life teaches us how to deal with things and peope. Situations can make us either stronger or break us if we don’t have the right people around us.

If I talk about myself as I don’t know that much about you . I would say that no one can EVER push your buttons if you don’t let them. Hide them, disable them and change your machinery because life is too short to be played with.

I am very caring and care a lot when I get into the process of doing things at home or for my family members. If sometimes I feel that things aren’t appreciated I don’t sit and cry about it, I just thank God for being that way and no that doesn’t fit in the “they are pushing my buttons” , that’s how it should be. You are what you are.

But who pushes YOUR buttons?

Was just checking some posts and came across lots of various cases where people steal either one way or the other. Some directly and some indirectly. When I mean indirectly I mean something they don’t think is stealing, like downloading pirated software, downloading movies, etc etc and directly would be like going into a shop and stealing.

I don’t promote stealing at all but was wondering what you guys think when someone steals a piece of bread because he is unable to earn money to buy one, or can’t get a job or anything. With that in mind I am thinking of situations in the poor countries around the world.

Can stealing be justified or is a case by case thing?