But what happens?

They move on! They move on but one thing in our minds should be that no matter who we lose, the way we live our life will definitely be different. We will definitely be affected in a lot of various aspects.

For example when my Mum was ill I used to feel my life would end right there because without Mum I don’t want to be in this world. What happened? I am still alive, but then again that’s what God wants us to do. He knows that when we lose someone he also gives us the courage to cope their loss and live our life based on the lessons and things we learnt from those that are gone.

I miss mum every single second from the day she left this world to enter heaven, but I am sure she left knowing that those she left behind have the strength to move on.

How do you cope with a loss of your loved ones?

Lifetime, Electric Chair? Death by hanging… or what. Can that girl ever come back again? Can her family ever come back from the other side. Why don’t people think? I am frustrated when reading that the authorities are letting him go…

Did you make up your mind? Shouldn’t the group of guys be hanged and shot same way they wiped a whole family? How can some Iraqi guys just get into a place and rape a girl and kill the family and get away with it.

Well to clear your confusion. The REAL story is..

An American soldier, Age 24, Name Dale Green and his three friends. Broke into a house in Iraq in 2006, and raped a 14 year old girl and then killed the family, walking away with a life time sentence rather than being put to death as the other criminals in same category are put to.

Why is it that? Maybe because he is American? Maybe his life is more valuable? Well there is no maybe here baby.. he is as worthless as everyone else who goes to that level.

God forbid.. if you found out that you only had 3 days left due to some illness or something that might happen. What would be the 5 things you would do in order to make yourself feel peaceful when the time really comes and knocks on your door. hmm

If I would manage to get that much courage to go through something like this I would do the following..

• Meet personally all those people who I didn’t get a chance to meet for ages and say sorry to them for not being able to give them the time they deserved
• Say sorry to my dad for the little tiny ups and downs I had with him when I was a bit younger.. and tell him how much I value that he is my dad and what he has done for me. And tell my mum how much I love her.
• Tell my brothers that whatever I have done for them since their birth till now, always had one intention behind it. That they would be successful and be proud that their older brother cares so much that he would loose his sleep just so they could be safely tucked in their bed.
• Sign papers that after my death all my organs that can be reused for someone else be taken out.
• Distribute all the money that I might have at that point to charity.

And when looking over the list above hmm surprisingly enough isn’t it true that most of the things we can do when we are given so less time to live, we can do right NOW!! hmm Amazing how we tend to pinch ourselves when something like this comes up.

So my dear friends.. you tell us what are the five things you would do? And when you are done with the list please join me and do atleast two of the things today

Life throws at us lots of things that we sometime dodge away from or sometimes we might even be strong enough to stand face to face with all things that it puts in our way. But what about those people who can not fight the things the battles that they are put in by God?

What do we suggest those people? Shall we let them suffer or help them along the way? I feel very strongly that when you see someone who is unable to go anywhere without anyone’s help that you take out time and help them. In anyway possible.. if not money then give them your time, show them you care, show them their life is the most precious gift they will ever have.

Sadly so many people commit suicide, not just by the bodily death but mentally and emotionally they kill themselves every single moment of the day. Why do they do that? What do they gain out of it? Is it better to just kill yourself and get  away from all the worries of life you think?

Ofcourse not! The best way to deal with the trials and tests of life is to stand firm and face anything that comes your way. After all God doesn’t and will NEVER put you in a situation you can’t get out of. Be thankful for the life you are blessed  with and you will notice how lovely your life becomes.

Death shall NEVER be a wish on your list. If you know someone who has these kind of thoughts, give them a million reasons to hang along and enjoy the wonderful place called Earth!