Have you ever wondered what lying does to your image? Well ofcourse you have but have you ever realized how badly it affects your entire surroundings and the way people think of you as a person…?

I was reading a book about lying, no no not to see how I can lie myself through situations but to see how a liar thinks. Learnt a lot and felt that there is so much we don’t know about this sick hobby that most people prefer rather than collecting stamps.

When a person lies:-

• No one trusts him in the long run
• No one takes him seriously
• No one feels any good being around them
• Everyone will make fun of them behind their back
• He/She forgets what they said as lies are easily forgotten by the one who made them up

What should one do to avoid being tagged as any of the things above:-

• Try to atleast be honest with yourself first
• Always make sure you tell the truth, you will thank yourself for it
• Be around people who appreciate your honesty and are honest themselves
• Give yourself a pat on the back for being honest one step at a time

What about you guys n gals.. any tips as to how some of our friends can stay away from this thing and be a better person?

Today I will be talking about something that I really would love to know your views about, YOU as a individual can help and guide as to what should be done here.

I will write the whole thing as a list:-

• There is a doctor who is treating a very good friend of mine for brain surgery
• The friend has lost her memory numerous times after a tragic accident
• Miracle after miracle.. she survived and came back to life again and again
• She forgets everything from the past few years not knowing who was her someone special
• The “desi” doctor treating her has started having feelings for the friend
• The doctor knows that the person he is treating is in a very deep relation with someone else
• When doctor finds out he misuses his position and the trust her family places in him
• He has on various memory loss occasions confused her that she was in love with him
• It takes her few weeks / months to get back her memory after a bleeding
• During that time he tries his best to use any “doctor time” to confuse her.
• Her written diaries and friends she remembers tell her the opposite of what the doc says
• Doc stole her mobile phone, removed all the messages to get secrets about her
• Every time the friend got her memory back she confronted the doc and humiliated him
• Some people in her family are in a tragic situation and can’t be here
• Doctor was told to leave by her since she feels awful knowing his intentions
• Everyone in the family knows of this special someone, apart from the father
• The doctor NOW got her dad’s permission to fly her off to another country for “treatment”

This is as sick as a person can ever be. I mean how on earth can a doctor who KNOWS that a memory loss patient will get her memory back still goes on saying “I am your special someone” .. how insane is this?

What would YOU do in a situation like this knowing your friend is in a situation that is hell for them as no other doctor is taking this case due to its complexity..