Since most of you know that I got married 26th February and I haven’t written a few weeks before that so here comes a new post about Marriage.

For me Marriage before getting married was an amazing and respectful relation and partnership and after marriage it means even more. A marriage that is based on love and respect for one another has lots of strength within itself rather than just being with one personf or the sake of being with them.

I have realized that in the past month if you are with someone who is understanding and loving and really realizes how things work together life really does become heaven on earth.

Marriage for me is something i recommend to everyone who obviously hasn’t married yet, so married people you can chill, as no need to get into it again as one person is enough and deserves your love from the bottom of your heart thats only for them and only them.

What does marriage mean to you? Care to share?

There are relationships where communication is totally non-existent and there are relationships that have communication on top of its list. I mean I have seen relationships broken into pieces due to someone not being able to communicate their worries or fears properly.
On the other hand I have seen relationships that are so pure and wonderful that things just fall perfectly in place.

Communication in a relationship is as important to a couple as oxygen is important to our lungs. No air we die.. no communication the relationship dies.. And sad part is that most couples that end up being together know that communication is the ONLY thing they require to last a lifetime they still forget about it the moment they start assuming things about one another.

What about you? What does communication mean to you in a relationship of any sort?

How often have you heard this around your families by the elders?

I have heard this WAY too many times about lots of guys in our desi society who are kind of going on the wrong “path”. Like going totally insane and ruining their lives with late nights, girls, and anything that can totally mess one up when the line is crossed.

A guy who is unable to see a girl without seeing doubles (like the picture) due to his drinking problems doesn’t deserve to be with someone until they are READY and HEALED. They can’t be given a “doll” to play with, which in the above situation is still called a biwi (a wife), instead of an inmate which she would be.

But what do our elders do? Or in this case what do those people think who I am aiming this post towards?

They appreciate the idea that when you bring a Pakistani or Indian girl from back home she will make this loafer’s life a heaven and he will “palak jhapakte hi” become a saint.. how sick is that?

How can the guys and girls who are from the guy’s side allow this to even happen? Would those girls who jump around like crazy because their self obsessed brother is getting married to a girl who has no idea that the wedding clothes she is putting on is actually her kaffan? Would those “sisters” allow themselves to be married to someone like that?

I feel everyone who gets married deserves a happy loving husband. Not someone who just got “dragged” into being married with some girl who from her point of view is starting her life, a life full of beautiful dreams, a life where she feels she will be with her soul mate, not her shoe’s sole!

And khuda ke liye let’s understand and get it through our heads, that MARRIAGE SHOULD BE FOR LIFE!

It’s not a doll’s house that one year with this person and the next few years with someone else..

A tiny request to parents and friends who are reading this. Do not encourage anyone to put some innocent girl’s life in danger by putting her into a life sentence with how insensitive, low, and rude some guys become when they get the taste of the night world.

Books related to Relationships and Marriage

- The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
- The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships
What are your views on this? Are those people who say that “Shaadi kara do ladka theek ho jayega” right? Would YOU marry off your sister to someone like that? Do share please…

There are lots of ways one can manage to sit on a horse, although it might seem to be the most simplest of things. Afterall it’s just a horse na. You just put one foot on one side, swipe the other on the other end and voila you are on the horse.

With a sehra on your head and horse underneath, like the maharaja on the ride to his palace to pick up his bride. But things don’t always go so smooth.. as sometimes destiny has something else in mind..

Just like what we see below:-

Hehe yah I know it’s funny in a way, but what about you? Do you remember any funny shaadi ke incidents? Like the dulha crying more than the bride… the horse running off without the dulha, and so on.. come on let’s share