But it never is is it? When we look around we kind of feel others should be like us, and when I say others I mean siblings, brothers and sisters around us who might not sometimes see what you are seeing. And being a caring brother I try my best to show them the right path. But then again, don’t I have a life of my own. Oh yes LOTS of things to do otherwise, like:-

• Taking care that Mum gets the right treatment in Hospital
• Taking care that little sis gets a balanced routine by taking her to her little friends to play and to the cinema so her little innocent mind doesn’t get messed by looking at mum being so ill hmm
• Making sure that little brothers don’t get in to trouble
• Giving them anything they want whenever they ask for it
• Trying to fix things at home that sometimes no one else at home cares to worry about
• Trying to tell the brothers to give more n more time to mum so she feels that you want to be around her because she is the reason you guys are here..

And tons n tons more, so I was wondering that the caring nature that I was brought up with by mum isn’t present in some of the brothers. So why is it so? Is my connection with my mother stronger since I lived my first 10 years with her seeing her sacrificing so much for me being away from dad 10 years? Is it that which is enough for me to give my life for her? hmm

What do you guys think? Do suggest your views as to your connection with your parents, either mother or father and what is the reason why you feel that certain way..

thanks for reading