• Do not give them the attention they expect
  This will make them go air-less, all the expectations they might have had for making you mad
  will turn to failure. A rude person doesn’t like that, they will just “burn” in their own fire.
• Do not respond and just shake it off
  The best way to deal with rude users who either mail you or call and harass you is to just relax and do not respond at all. If you respond you will be putting petrol on the fire. And you have better things to do, right?
• So what if you are right..
  If a rude user tries to walk over you with assumptions about you or something you do. Just ask yourself this simple question.. “Does the other person deserve to know if you are right or wrong?” if you were right, would it make them go nice with you? If they were right.. does it make any difference in your life? You will save lots of time NOT paying attention to them
• To be rude or not to be
  If someone is rude to you then remember one simple thing. A person is either rude or they aren’t. If I am rude towards another human being then that’s how I will be one time or the other with you too. But if my values my tradition my religion is so well injected in me, I wouldn’t need to think if I am to be rude to you or not, I will just be what I REALLY am. Rudeness comes out one way or the other.
• Rude people at work
  So you aren’t so happy with a co-worker who is rude? Well why are you letting him/her be incharge over your emotions and feelings. Rude co-workers have a plan. They want to make you feel as you owe them something and they are better than you. So next time they be rude, either put them in their place nicely.. or relax and do the “in one ear out the other” technique
• Rude people at home
  Some people have family members that shout and are rude towards them. Well look at it this way, atleast you are lucky you have a family, a brother, sister, mother, father. Imagine those who struggle to find love in orphanages all their lives and end up no where. But coming back to the point, to deal with rude people at home.. do NOT hurt yourself, it’s not your fault. As the one “bullying” you might have personal issues that they have to deal with. Don’t let yourself scar in the process. Stay strong, smile and shake it off by saying in your mind “I am too strong to be affected”
• Rude people on the road
  Lots of times I get people driving in my lane just milliseconds after they have given a signal to turn. One has two choices.. either to start abusing the hell out of the other person from your car, something he may never hear OR the best option would be to say “Oh that was close hehe man I am good with brakes” or something similar. Just imagine how much blood boil you would save.. giving any situation the comic uplifting makes any situation turn “cool”
• Rude people at a supermarket
  This is what I do often. No no not being rude. But whenever someone is making their own line next to the till.. I am usually one of those who in a friendly tone.. first smiles, and says “oh sorry sir I guess you missed the line” There has never been a single time when a smile has resulted in a rude reply. The thing is that us humans long for “smiles” and if someone talks nicely to us, and that too “among lots of others in line” the one breaking the rules might not have guts to come up with a good reason why he has to go before the five old ladies behind you.

I am sure lots of you have other lovely tips you want to share.. so go ahead..