CategoryInspirational & Positive

5 Steps to staying positive

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Staying positive is a skill that can be developed and below are five steps to staying positive (ofcourse there can be more) Take a deep breath when a situation tries to detrack you Ignore any negative message sent your way, just grab the constructive part of it Talk to a friend who has a positive mindset Accept that making mistakes is a natural thing that everyone does Don't HATE people, you...

What we say matters – The book

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I have read lots of books. And still do. I am more into self development books since they teach us a lot in one way or the other. After every book is finished you can feel totally energized and a different person with a bit more positive approach towards things that you read about. I read a book called “What we say matters” and loved it to the max. It’s definitely worth it. I...

Why do people fail?

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People usually fail because they are on a path which leads to totally unrealistic goals. You can just not reach the sky if you are going to use a few air baloons tied to your hands like the cartoon, UP. It doesn't work that way. To succeed one has to go through a tough process of learning and making mistakes. The way I have seen people climb the ladder is sometimes by taking shortcuts. Well...

How to make a kind request

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I have often come across situations where someone might not have done something as requested. But then again looking at the whole situation I have also come to terms with the fact that maybe the “demand” I had was something I thought of as request. Making a request to someone to do something for us is just like giving them a choice to either say yes or a no. But if one does it KNOWING...

Forgiving because you have to..

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Lots of times we look around us and find people who have entered our lives in one way or the other. Sometimes our family members do things that we feel are beyond any boundry imaginable. But what innocent way of thinking is the fact that we expect God to forgive us when we do so many bad things but find it very tough to forgive to other humanbeings. Family members don’t talk to one another...

Why be positive?

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There are lots of reasons why one has to be positive no matter what. Here are few of them:- People like positive people.. no one likes a sourface 😀 People would love to be like you.. what better way to live this life than be an example 🙂 You yourself will love your innerself because positivity is what makes the world go around Because being negative drains you of all energy that could have been...

How dressing well enough matters

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When it comes to dressing yourself well enough lots of people don’t really think too much about it. I myself sometimes do go outside in a regular shirt and jeans and that’s it. Nothing fancy. But when you think about it, dressing yourself atleast good enough “for yourself” really makes an impact on your own self confidence. First make yourself look good for yourself, and...

Fear of public speaking

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I was like that a few years back. Or actually I must say when I was in 5th grade I was very very very shy. But then things changed. I started looking at myself as someone who knew what he was saying and doing. It started with the boost I got from winning the “Artist of the year” and when I got the award for “Highest achievement in maths”. The confidence and the push I got...

No work is bad..

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Lots of people have this level of “ego” that doesn’t let them work at a place which other’s would see as “low” according to their experience or education. After working in London for a leading company when I came back to Norway, I didn’t get a job for a bit and in the mean time instead of doing what a few others do.. which is lie on the corner, I worked...

Quitting when you are ahead

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Why should one do that? I hear this a lot although I don’t agree with it at all. Why would one quit when they are ahead? And who knows where to measure the line and say “ok now I am ahead I am quitting”… Success is all in the mind, if you see yourself as successful then you are, if you don’t then their is no money in the world that can make you think otherwise. There...

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