Well to be honest after almost 20+ years of radio presenting, and being on stage in front of a few hundred thousand people being filmed by the national tv, there are probably still moments I get nervous when speaking in public. The reason is obvious. Because I too am a human being 😀 But hey there are ways to make the nervousness less if not eliminate it totally. Here are few of my tips:- Talk to...
There is a HUGE different between the two. And I hope that more and more people realize that it’s not healthy to be jealous of others who have made it in their life. But then again what is this whole “made it” concept? Is it that the other person has more money than you, has a bigger and better car or other things that you feel you should have had? Maybe the other person has...
There are often times in our life when we sit and start thinking of all the things that happen to us, especially when we wish to put ourself in a “crying mode”. Yes, some people do that often. They feel that if the whole world is after them, and the only thing they want is to see them sad and miserable. So what is self-pity? I don’t see self-pity as anything other than suicide...
There are various ways one can tell if someone is lying, either by the way they say things or by the way they use their body language. All in all there might be some who are “born” liars 😛 or maybe those that have mastered the art. But no matter what, as they say “A lie has no feet” Below are the 10 ways you can tell someone is lying to you:- They won’t look you...
We often come across situations at home or at workplace where conflicts are bound to happen. The majority of the people around us will definitely not do anything about the situation, but a wise and intelligent person which I am sure you are, will hopefully try to resolve a situation between two people. Afterall, what better way to be remembered among people than a problem solver. Ok now onto the...
A friend brought my attention to something which in my views is a kind of disorder which has become a kind of a lifestyle for certain men. A Misogynist, a women hater, carries a lot of weight on their own life in one way or the other. If you ask me I believe that they live with a constant fear since this condition is born in the very beginning stages of their younger days. In other words they are...
Whenever we are going through a tough and sad patch in life we tend to forget to smile. Why is that? We all do know that when we are sad we are using more energy than what we would be using if we were smiling right? So why is it so tough? Oh yes maybe because the devil’s job is done when he tells us that now life is over, we are finished and nothing can be done. But that’s just the...
We are all living in this world with different types of people with different types of personalities. Where you will find people you can empty your heart to, there are also people you might not want to reveal anything personal about, because the outcome might be totally the opposite of what you expect. If not now, maybe or definitely in the future. That’s why it’s very important that...
People know who they have the potential to be. The challenge is seeing that process through. Self-development is an art. It takes time. It requires patience. It asks you to step outside your comfort zone. It is challenging — and that’s the point. However, the biggest challenge when it comes to self-development is the process itself. People really struggle with the path and all its twists and...
There’s a paradox with self-improvement and it is this: the ultimate goal of all self-improvement is to reach the point where you no longer feel the need to improve yourself. Think about it: The whole goal of improving your productivity is to reach the point where you never have to think about how to be more productive. The whole point of pursuing happiness is to reach the...