Stop thinking yourself as a victim since the world is already full of people like that. You will see millions of those people around the world who would sit and feel sorry for what you going through or have gone through but have you ever thought that feeling defeated won’t get us anywhere?
Anyone ever thought that feeling sad or bad about things that happened in the past will make us feel better in any possible way? It won’t .. right? So why do some people feel victimized over each and every situation. I came across an amazing article in a magazine a few days ago which spoke about this so thought would be nice to talk about this.
If you feel that the whole world gets their break while you don’t maybe it’s time to do something about it. Maybe it’s time to get up and make a change in your life that makes you more positive and makes you realize that you too are good for something. It’s easier to complain and feel bad about yourself but it’s even easier to do something about it.
The only thing you need to do in order to get out of this evil mindset is to start doing little things one step at a time. Add something new to your daily routine that gives you less and less time to feel victimized or sad about an issue at hand. Because most of the times we feel bad is NOT because of someone else but because of the values that we live by. Be flexible and realize you can not change anyone but yourself. And the only person in charge of your happiness.. is you :)
What do you guys think? How does being a victim serve a positive purpose in your life?