Reflections with Wakas
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Reflections with Wakas · English · 25 Aug 2026 · 4 min

Why We Keep Going Back to People Who Hurt Us

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Sometimes the hardest person to walk away from is the same person who has hurt us the most. We know the pattern, we remember the disappointment, we have cried because of them, promised ourselves we are done, and yet somehow we find ourselves going back. In this episode of Reflections with Wakas Mir, I want to talk about why we do that, what we are really searching for when we return, and why healing sometimes begins when we stop waiting for a different ending from the same person.

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