I speak with lots of people on a daily basis. Some of them have amazing ideas which they could do lots of things with, but it saddens me to see that majority of them will be taking those ideas to the death bed with them. Those ideas that they get, came into their minds due to a reason. They weren’t just a fluke, they weren’t a mishap or an accident. They were given to that individual...
Things to keep in mind when speaking with a narcissist
I have come across different types of people in the past few decades. Either it was via radio, or face-to-face interactions in Pakistan, Norway or UK. I must say, the experiences I got were just out of this world since each and every individual I came across taught me something that I needed to learn and which helps me in one way or the other to this time. I see myself as someone who cares about...
To shake or not to shake & what does a handshake say about you as a person?
Now that’s a big title for a post now isn’t it? Well I had to write the whole thing to make you realize the importance of the whole thing and the connection it has with you as an individual. You know when you are meeting someone for the first time, you always shake hands or say a hello (of course before Corona times shaking hands was so normal). So when you stretch your hand to shake...
Your fear of losing will not allow you to take risks
There are certain times when it’s ok to have doubts about a certain situation or an idea that you are having. But when such doubts keep repeating themselves, you will fall into a trap which will only make you fearful of absolutely everything and anything that come across your path. Let’s say you are about to make a business deal with someone, but you are scared that they will con you...
Success is usually just around the corner when you are about to give up
There are times when we are about to throw in the towel and just sit wondering if what we are doing is even worth it and if we will ever achieve our goal. Well, that’s exactly when we just have to throw a punch towards negativity and knock it down while trying to do anything we can to reach that goal which we have worked so hard for. I often see people giving up right before their winning...
People don’t forget how you made them feel
In life, we come across various types of people. Some nice, some not so nice. Some that make you feel on top of the world, while others that make you feel worthless and good-for-nothing. The thing is that most of the times it’s not what they said, but how they said the things. Most of the times, it’s the chain of words connected together with a hint of degrading comments that made you...
Why don’t we practice what we preach?
We are often faced with a dilemma that what we say, we don’t do ourselves. What we preach, we don’t practice, and what we believe is the truth, we don’t share it. It happens, it’s what humans do, it’s how we are built, but does that mean we HAVE to just follow this way of thinking and we can’t change for the better? Can we not just be the kind of a person who...
If you can’t help, move aside
We often come across people who lift us up to the skies with their motivational words. And where there are such people, there is a group of people who do everything in their power to put obsticles in our way. They don’t care for a single moment the impact it will have on their image in front of others. They would just do anything to make things sour for someone, expecting things to turn out...
Our reactions are based on the situations
We often come across situations in life where we are expected to behave a certain way, and in a certain style. But what we mostly fail to realize is the fact that everything that we do, our actions, our reactions to certain actions, words and behaviors are nothing more than the exact outcome that was supposed to happen in those times. For example. If I day in and day out hurl abusive language...