There are various ways one can tell if someone is lying, either by the way they say things or by the way they use their body language. All in all there might be some who are “born” liars :P or maybe those that have mastered the art. But no matter what, as they say “A lie has no feet”
Below are the 10 ways you can tell someone is lying to you:-
- They won’t look you straight in the eye
- When they smile AFTER they say I love you rather than when they are saying it
- They will become very defensive if they are lying. An innocent person will be offensive
- When you change the subject they will be relaxed, an innocent person would want a topic cleared out
- Their Sentences will be muddled and you won’t get half of what they are saying
- They will use humor or sarcasm to avoid the topic most of the time
- Their smile will be limited to the mouth. A proper smile lights up the whole face including the eyes
- They will be touching their nose, neck, face or behind the ear while talking
- They will feel very uncomfortable talking to you and will turn away
- They will keep on talking because they are NOT comfortable with pauses or silence for the fear of being caught
What about you? How do YOU catch a liar or how do YOU get way with it :)
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October 2nd, 2008 at 4:22 am
i dont know how but its natural, i can judge a person when he is lying. i dont say that im a face reader, but no other words :)
i can guss one’s personality through his eyes, infact EYES SPEAK LOUDLY
doesn’t matter how confident a person is, eyes are not confident enough
October 2nd, 2008 at 6:30 am
Thanku for this one, coz I have no clue how to catch a liar :P I have always been a very bad face reader too, saaf saaf baaton ki mujhe ziyada samajh ati hai! And if I say I never ever lie etc etc even that would be a lie hehe, coz in our daily rutine we do lie thoda bouhat I think, like if someone asks me how Im doing I would say Im fine when I couldnt be more misserble :P so these kind of lies that dont harm anyone! but else InshAllah and Allhamdulilla I try my best not to lie!
Point nr.2 and 8 are funny :P Now ill be looking at everyone when they talking and if anyone touches their face and so on, ill be like oh oh :P hehe! but on serious note as said above ke Jhoot ke paon nahin hote, and one thing is for sure that truth is the only thing that will give peace of heart mind and soul!
October 2nd, 2008 at 7:09 am
I dont like to lie but sometimes (bahot kam) lie to save my face :-(
How i catch one of my friend lie.. :P he will says
“ok leave it change topic or ok i have pain on my head stop this topic” & eise hota hein every time when i started to ask him the truth…
or sometimes he will says before the topic close
“ok U r right iam wrong”…but iam always saying “i dont ask who is right or wrong but why U do this or that…”
I really hate that someone lie to me…coz i like to listen a sad bad truth than a lie coz when i will realise that someone lie to me its hurting..
October 2nd, 2008 at 7:20 am
@ duffer
hehe good na.. I think those of us who are able to catch a lie will never be out of work.. always a need for those in the police dept. na
@ Aleena
Well hope you catch the lies jo koi bhi bolat ae :)
@ butterfly2008
Those that lie to you have to realize how it would be if they are in your situation ..
October 2nd, 2008 at 8:10 am
Kya baat hai wakas bhai bilkul sahi hai points to catch a liar. May Allah make us strong enough to be with the truth always…Aameen
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October 2nd, 2008 at 12:22 pm
:’(
gaaliaan dene ki b rakhi hui hai? :D
October 2nd, 2008 at 4:33 pm
I’m not type of a liar but of course we all tell porkies from time to time for different reasons. Lie as such is in nature itself, in all creations. See plants or small creatures changing colors to deceive and its less matter of cause since driven by same impulse.
ps. I found this pretty interesting:
http://www.aolhealth.com/healthy-living/relationships/how-to-catch-a-liar
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October 2nd, 2008 at 6:57 pm
@ duffer
Oh yah gaalian denge to police ki naukri milegi na i guess
@ Amina
Yes sis nice share, and observation was good that creatures and plants change color.. cool :)
October 3rd, 2008 at 12:29 am
OK done, but not a designation less than DPO
banda kameena ho ro rajj k ho
thoray se to bus badnami hoti hai :)
nice theme btw
October 3rd, 2008 at 3:59 pm
Hmmm nice ne, how do i fgure out when one is lying? The eyes dont loo into your eyes, sometimes they stammer a bit, fidgt a bit and some times you find them explaining things a little too much :)
As for how i get away with it :P I dont as if
I do lie my ears turn red :P
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October 4th, 2008 at 11:48 pm
O myyyyy God so trueeeee all the points point out towards the liar..hmmmm now i can be more careful with such type of people..:P
Thanks for updating us about the body language of the liar..waise the second point has caught my fancy…hmmmmm when myhubby says I Love you n smile…should i think he is lying..hehehe…:thinking:
To tell u the truth i can analyze n read people mind n face…n this update has strengthen my sixth sense..It’s a God”s gift…Allaah bachaai jhooth bolne waalon se..:)
thanks for sharing this imp piece of information bro..bless u.
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