Lots of times we look around us and find people who have entered our lives in one way or the other. Sometimes our family members do things that we feel are beyond any boundry imaginable. But what innocent way of thinking is the fact that we expect God to forgive us when we do so many bad things but find it very tough to forgive to other humanbeings. Family members don’t talk to one another until one of them leaves this world and some still don’t realize that on the judgement day the ones that have hearts full of bad feelings won’t be having any good time up there.
Forgive those who have hurt you because at the end of the day it’s you who will be peaceful…
December 16th, 2009 at 2:24 pm
As mentioned above, forgiving someone is the best thing one can do for themselves. No question about that.
December 16th, 2009 at 9:31 pm
True said Wakas bahi, sometimes saw in soem families tht everyone in them corner no contact with each other until something bad happen in family…sad no…coz doesnt mean tht the person who passed away was the matter between two families…
I think we have to forgive everyday and to everyone coz life so short…dont know when one of us will passed away…now am here but dont know abt tom…sometimes when iam angry with my brots coz of wht they r doing isnt good so i speak a bit loud but after few mints will ask if someone wanna a coffee etc…and i felt better when they said "ys wanna a coffee" coz i know he have forgive me
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Of course iam agree with U, Wakas bahi tht "Forgive those who have hurt you because at the end of the day it’s you who will be peaceful…" coz the person U will forgive will remember tht he/she did a mistake n U forgive him/her so wont do it again…
We have to be thankful to God for everything we have in our life, but also have to forgive others…
God bless…
December 16th, 2009 at 9:33 pm
Very well said, Forgivness is such a wondeful thing to do, N it only tell how strong one can actually be. We during our daily life commit so many sins N we expect AllAh to forgive us, then we definitely should consider forgiving others who have done somethin bad N injustice to us as well
beside, Our self-respect require from us to forgive others hmm – To live a healthy life we should not keep grudges instead learn from other peoples behaviours, what to do N what not to do in the future. AllAh bless, nice thoughts.
December 18th, 2009 at 12:29 am
its really sad that we wait that long to forgive a person. things happen no one is perfect
if we want our mistakes to be forgiven, why cant we do the same. we can remember the deeds done wrong to us but we can forgive them before its late.
December 18th, 2009 at 1:29 am
its really sad that we wait that long to forgive a person. things happen no one is perfect
if we want our mistakes to be forgiven, why cant we do the same. we can remember the deeds done wrong to us but we can forgive them before its late.
December 18th, 2009 at 3:28 am
yes very sad Forgiving
god blessing
December 18th, 2009 at 7:45 pm
One of the main benefits of forgiveness is that it allows you to return to the kind person you really are.
December 18th, 2009 at 8:01 pm
Forgiving is the best thing you can do for yourself. If you dont, your conscience will continue to remind you that you hold a grudge against something or someone.
December 18th, 2009 at 8:10 pm
I agree..forgivin is the best thing you can do for yourself..but i guess you just need loads of courage to forgive in the circumstance..not everyone is able to show the strongness..and becomes weak..it is really tough sumtym..
December 18th, 2009 at 8:28 pm
Forgiveness is more than a decision. It only happens when your heart and head agree that it is time to let go.
December 18th, 2009 at 8:45 pm
One of the main benefits of forgiveness is that it allows you to return to the kind person you really are.
December 18th, 2009 at 9:01 pm
Forgiving is the best thing you can do for yourself. If you dont, your conscience will continue to remind you that you hold a grudge against something or someone.
December 18th, 2009 at 9:10 pm
I agree..forgivin is the best thing you can do for yourself..but i guess you just need loads of courage to forgive in the circumstance..not everyone is able to show the strongness..and becomes weak..it is really tough sumtym..
December 18th, 2009 at 9:28 pm
Forgiveness is more than a decision. It only happens when your heart and head agree that it is time to let go.
December 19th, 2009 at 8:29 am
“I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note – torn in two, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one. “
~ Henry Ward Beecher
December 19th, 2009 at 9:29 am
“I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note – torn in two, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one. “
~ Henry Ward Beecher
December 19th, 2009 at 9:57 am
Forgiving is very much must to move on in life, but not forgetting doesn't necessarly mean one keep grudges it can also mean that one will remember it for not to make the same mistakes again. Walking through life we learn at every step, even by forgiving.
December 19th, 2009 at 9:58 am
Well, it's only than we can actually really forgive isn it.
December 19th, 2009 at 10:04 am
Nice quote and yes very true. But when we say we dont forget it means we are more cautious. Since obviously if we arent cautious about certain ppl in a family we will keep going through same process again and again. Its better to just get this in mind that there might be a dozen ways to hurt someone but there is no other way to hurt oneself more than to not forgive others or oneself..
December 19th, 2009 at 10:57 am
Forgiving is very much must to move on in life, but not forgetting doesn't necessarly mean one keep grudges it can also mean that one will remember it for not to make the same mistakes again. Walking through life we learn at every step, even by forgiving.
December 19th, 2009 at 10:58 am
Well, it's only than we can actually really forgive isn it.
December 19th, 2009 at 11:04 am
Nice quote and yes very true. But when we say we dont forget it means we are more cautious. Since obviously if we arent cautious about certain ppl in a family we will keep going through same process again and again. Its better to just get this in mind that there might be a dozen ways to hurt someone but there is no other way to hurt oneself more than to not forgive others or oneself..
December 22nd, 2009 at 1:06 am
I think it is easily said then done. I agree that we should forgive others and we should be forgiving with open heart. However, it is easy yo say “I forgive you” but it is hard to forgive. But yet we all should try to forgive because if almighty can forgive us for all the mistakes we make, and we all make mistakes beyond we can remember them…they are mistakes that have hurt someone but yet we are forgiven by almighty so we should learn to let go and forgive…
Although forgiving is possible but forgetting is nearly not possible because—when we think of something or someone we always remember the bad things that have happened to us. As humans we tend to remember the bad experience rather than the good ones…and we tend to forget all good that’s done when a smallest thing goes wrong.
So I think we should try to forgive, and forgetting I cnt say much about as I hvnt taught my self to do so… and I believe if I cnt do something then I cnt expect anyone else to do so as well! But we all can try to forgive with an open and true heart!
December 22nd, 2009 at 2:06 am
I think it is easily said then done. I agree that we should forgive others and we should be forgiving with open heart. However, it is easy yo say “I forgive you” but it is hard to forgive. But yet we all should try to forgive because if almighty can forgive us for all the mistakes we make, and we all make mistakes beyond we can remember them…they are mistakes that have hurt someone but yet we are forgiven by almighty so we should learn to let go and forgive…
Although forgiving is possible but forgetting is nearly not possible because—when we think of something or someone we always remember the bad things that have happened to us. As humans we tend to remember the bad experience rather than the good ones…and we tend to forget all good that’s done when a smallest thing goes wrong.
So I think we should try to forgive, and forgetting I cnt say much about as I hvnt taught my self to do so… and I believe if I cnt do something then I cnt expect anyone else to do so as well! But we all can try to forgive with an open and true heart!
December 29th, 2009 at 12:28 am
ek dua sis i agree with you that not forgetting to me simply means that i hve no hard feelings it simple that i remember what has happened!
December 16th, 2009 at 10:12 pm
Yups there u go
thats how it is. With bros n sisters we can do that, same thing can be applied to people from the other side of your family or friends. it's just how we look at it na 
December 16th, 2009 at 10:12 pm
Self-respect does play some role when one is forgiving someone yes.. as you said keeping grudges is not good or fun at all