People usually fail because they are on a path which leads to totally unrealistic goals. You can just not reach the sky if you are going to use a few air baloons tied to your hands like the cartoon, UP. It doesn’t work that way.
To succeed one has to go through a tough process of learning and making mistakes. The way I have seen people climb the ladder is sometimes by taking shortcuts. Well the only way to climb a mountain is by taking one step at a time, while I do agree one can take a helicopter as well but there are certain places that won’t reach either.
Taking baby steps is the best thing to do when you want to learn how to walk and then run. And so what if you fall in the way, didn’t you fall when you were a baby? That made you aware that “Ok if i walk this way I will fall, if I walk like this with a balance I won’t fall”.
So reasons why people fail can be defined in such a way:-
- They have no passion at all in what they are doing
- They are totally ignorant of the fact that if they don’t succeed ones they can always try again
- And they have absolutely no faith in their skills and themselves
Remember, if you don’t trust your skills, no one else will either
December 17th, 2009 at 2:43 pm
You're so right, couldn't have said it any better
Reasons mentioned above are so realistic N true.
December 17th, 2009 at 11:37 pm
Thx for commenting and yes still most carry on this same path again n again.
December 18th, 2009 at 9:56 pm
People fail coz they dont believe on themself or never try to do wht they have in them mind…just do the theory but never try the practical coz they r afraid by the result tht if the result is bad will lost them strengh…but to be a successfull person have to try n try till success
December 18th, 2009 at 10:00 pm
I agree with u, that if u dnt trust ur own skills no1 else will, ppl often fail bcoz they lack confidence. Some ppl have no confidence in them maybe bcoz of some circumstances such as a bad childhood n some ppl have lots of it but might loose it later on bcoz of some circumstances later on in life, such as a tragedy. I think whats important – in this “state” with this feeling that they lack confidence – is to hold on to ur faith n ur spiritual side. And start by believing in ur prayers, very soon u will start believing in urself too..
December 18th, 2009 at 10:15 pm
Yups believing in your prayers does help it's just sad most people don't see that as an option as well patched up with good efford and himmat.
December 19th, 2009 at 9:45 am
We learn from our mistakes and failures shouldnt be an obstacle, we should make it our strength to fight back and conquer all the odds.
“But there is suffering in life, and there are defeats. No one can avoid them. But it's better to lose some of the battles in the struggles for your dreams than to be defeated without ever knowing what you're fighting for.”[Paulo Coelho]
December 19th, 2009 at 10:59 am
Yups i guess it just boils down to the fact that if we don't fail we will never be thankful when we succeed
December 20th, 2009 at 10:37 am
uuuffff title of this post scared da crap out of me …. yesterday was my last final exam and today i saw ur post :O
*running to prayer mat…. to pray for my results*
December 20th, 2009 at 2:14 pm
Good luck with your exam results
January 13th, 2010 at 2:22 pm
Welll…. as a very (un)famous blogger (that would be ‘Me’) said (when he failed in Class 1 examinations for the fifth time
), “I failed because the class teacher failed to pass me”