There is a HUGE different between the two. And I hope that more and more people realize that it’s not healthy to be jealous of others who have made it in their life. But then again what is this whole “made it” concept? Is it that the other person has more money than you, has a bigger and better car or other things that you feel you should have had? Maybe the other person has...
There are often times in our life when we sit and start thinking of all the things that happen to us, especially when we wish to put ourself in a “crying mode”. Yes, some people do that often. They feel that if the whole world is after them, and the only thing they want is to see them sad and miserable. So what is self-pity? I don’t see self-pity as anything other than suicide...
There are various ways one can tell if someone is lying, either by the way they say things or by the way they use their body language. All in all there might be some who are “born” liars 😛 or maybe those that have mastered the art. But no matter what, as they say “A lie has no feet” Below are the 10 ways you can tell someone is lying to you:- They won’t look you...
We often come across situations at home or at workplace where conflicts are bound to happen. The majority of the people around us will definitely not do anything about the situation, but a wise and intelligent person which I am sure you are, will hopefully try to resolve a situation between two people. Afterall, what better way to be remembered among people than a problem solver. Ok now onto the...
A friend brought my attention to something which in my views is a kind of disorder which has become a kind of a lifestyle for certain men. A Misogynist, a women hater, carries a lot of weight on their own life in one way or the other. If you ask me I believe that they live with a constant fear since this condition is born in the very beginning stages of their younger days. In other words they are...
Whenever we are going through a tough and sad patch in life we tend to forget to smile. Why is that? We all do know that when we are sad we are using more energy than what we would be using if we were smiling right? So why is it so tough? Oh yes maybe because the devil’s job is done when he tells us that now life is over, we are finished and nothing can be done. But that’s just the...
We are all living in this world with different types of people with different types of personalities. Where you will find people you can empty your heart to, there are also people you might not want to reveal anything personal about, because the outcome might be totally the opposite of what you expect. If not now, maybe or definitely in the future. That’s why it’s very important that...
People know who they have the potential to be. The challenge is seeing that process through. Self-development is an art. It takes time. It requires patience. It asks you to step outside your comfort zone. It is challenging — and that’s the point. However, the biggest challenge when it comes to self-development is the process itself. People really struggle with the path and all its twists and...
There’s a paradox with self-improvement and it is this: the ultimate goal of all self-improvement is to reach the point where you no longer feel the need to improve yourself. Think about it: The whole goal of improving your productivity is to reach the point where you never have to think about how to be more productive. The whole point of pursuing happiness is to reach the...
Stress has become so common these days that it’s hardly anyone you can find who hasn’t been stressing about one thing or the other. Stress can be related to work, home, vacation, or any other thing under the sky. It doesn’t need a reason to pop into your life, it just does! But what is stress anyway? Is it something we can control? Is it something we can channelize into...
Is it because you think you will make a mistake or is it because you think no one else makes them? Either way, both of the thoughts are wrong to carry with you. These thoughts will stop you at the spot and not allow you to move forward! So what to do if you are scared to speak in public? Breathe properly, master your subject, and be yourself. I have spoken and recited poems in front of thousands...
If you realized how important it is to meet the right people in your life, you will never waste your time with the “wrong” ones. Who are wrong people actually? I believe it’s those people who don’t talk about anything but negativity, it’s those who go on and on about how life sucks, and they haven’t gotten any chance from life to move ahead. Actually, negative...
Gone are the days of how a news about you reached other people via snail mail or other means. Now it takes a few seconds before your whole life is put on a plate for others to enjoy (or criticize). At the end of the day it’s your job to create a reputation of yourself. Absolutely no one else has that in their hands but you. If you want to be known as trustworthy, then do something that...
How comforting is the feeling of having a bed that’s cushiony and silky and for a moment imagine the amazing sleep on such a bed. Now imagine for a second that somewhere on that cushiony bed is a tiny needle. What will it do? Does it matter that the rest of the bed is comfortable? No, of course not. The tiny needle, whenever your body comes across it, will cause you pain and annoy you...
There are times when you are standing right across someone who has nothing better to do than to bombard you with their toxic speech and thoughts. And there is absolutely nothing worse than you standing there listening to them. Because no matter how mentally strong you think you are, you will be affected. Your time is precious and that time is better spent on positive thoughts and doing something...
If you are someone who is so much into your work that you sometimes feel like a robot? Well even if you don’t think like that, our routine sometimes makes us like that… like tiny ants doing our routine work. Here are three tips to a more happier you:- 1- Get rid of negative people Stop talking to people who only talk about the worst that can happen and start associating with people...
We all realize that the human brain is a powerful organ. When used to its full potential, it can do wonders, but when even an atom’s weight of negative thought comes in it, everything starts going wrong. That’s exactly what the reason is behind us being successful or unsuccessful. Obviously the fact that our surroundings, environment and opportunities also play a role, we just...
The human nature has within itself something that bogs us down and makes us totally unaware of why we are not moving forward. That very nature is also something that makes us into a very negative person and makes us totally oblivious to the things we are blessed with. That very nature as the subject hints is, jealousy. There has never come out anything good in being jealous of someone else...
The sense of selfworth is something that comes into the mind of a person who knows the true value of being blessed with a good health. There is absolutely nothing more valuable that can make you realize your value than seeing people around you who haven’t gotten the things you are blessed with. If we value ourselves by the number of 000’s after that digit in our bank account, then we...
In the world we are living in, everyone is trying to use someone as a ladder to reach the top. There is nothing wrong in it, unless you are doing it for the wrong reasons. If you are a genuine person, who has a thankful nature, you will use the other person to reach a higher goal and in return be loyal enough to not forget the people that helped you. As they say, remember people when going up...
Maybe that was just too direct. Let me say it differently. In order to succeed you would most probably need to fail on the way. It’s absolutely close to impossible to start something and end up succeeding with flying colors. Unless you are superman. Every idea and business demands time and effort, and your passion is like the cherry on the cake. Your job is to do your best, and if you still...
Life sometimes puts us in situations where we feel as if everyone has more than us. That everyone is happier than us, and everyone is enjoying the bounties of life unlike us. That’s exactly the time when we need to take a step back and take a serious look at our thoughts. We need to take drastic measures as to how we can stop such thoughts from making a place in our mind. Life is a gift and...
How often do you sit and not do anything? How often do you just wander around on the internet trying to spend your time and end up using a few good hours from your day on useless surfing, without getting any smarter than before? Time and money! I feel that people who tend to put time and money in the same sentence don’t really realize the true value of it. Money is something that comes and...
I can easily break the ice with people I don’t know or meet for the first time. Either it’s the door to door sales part-time job I had in London or it’s because of my hobby since 1994 as a radio presenter, I guess talking/communication sometimes comes easy. What I have figured out by not seeing people I talk to , I have come to realize that that one can divert a whole...